This is a good article and in my after thought about my past relations, I can clearly see that i should have ended it way before it finally ended. Sometimes ignoring these red flags is taken as a usual compromising exercise, however the emotions pent up and explode! In one of my relationships, I had my inner voice asking me to run and i ignored it cos it made me run to someone else. But I didn’t pay heed. My partner was sensitive and she sensed. She ended it on her own! Some times ppl are lucky too!